Standing Firm: Defending LGBTQ+ Identity

Standing Firm: Defending LGBTQ+ Identity

As political landscapes across the globe become increasingly polarised, the LGBTQ+ community finds itself once again cast into the role of an all-too-convenient scapegoat. In the UK, where government policies, media narratives, and cultural discourse have reignited debates on identity, inclusion, and rights, maintaining a strong and united LGBTQ+ identity is more crucial than ever. Because let’s be honest, if there’s a crisis, we can bet our rainbow socks that someone, somewhere, is going to blame the gays. Economic downturn? Must be all those same-sex weddings. Housing crisis? Probably too many drag queens hoarding properties for their excessive wardrobes. The absurdity would be hilarious if it weren’t so depressingly predictable.

Historically, marginalised communities have always been the go-to scapegoats during times of societal unrest. When the going gets tough, the tough get… blaming minorities. Political figures, keen to distract from systemic issues, regularly roll out the tired old narratives of ‘protecting traditional values’ (translation: keep things as miserable as possible for anyone who isn’t straight, white, and male). The UK is currently seeing an aggressive pushback against LGBTQ+ rights, with the so-called ‘culture wars’ reaching new heights. Trans rights, gender identity, and LGBTQ+ inclusion in education have become battlegrounds where fearmongering reigns supreme. The blocking of Scotland’s Gender Recognition Reform Bill by Westminster was a particular masterclass in ‘how to look like you’re governing while actually just stirring up division’ (Muir, 2023). Government officials claim this is all in the name of fairness, but let’s not pretend this isn’t about scoring cheap political points.

Now, let’s talk about the delightful complexity of intersectionality. Because let’s face it—being LGBTQ+ isn’t one-size-fits-all. Black and Asian LGBTQ+ individuals face double the discrimination, both from within the queer community and from broader society (Taylor, 2022). And let’s not forget the economic struggles that disproportionately impact us. The cost-of-living crisis isn’t just hitting hard; it’s drop-kicking working-class and homeless LGBTQ+ folks into deeper financial insecurity (Stonewall, 2023). Meanwhile, trans people are bearing the brunt of some of the worst hostility in recent memory, as their very existence is debated by people who couldn’t pick a trans person out of a lineup but feel strangely qualified to dictate their rights (Briggs, 2023). Hate crimes are on the rise, services are becoming more exclusionary, and yet, some commentators have the audacity to say LGBTQ+ concerns are overblown. Ah yes, because the best way to tell if discrimination exists is to ask those who aren’t experiencing it (Smith, 2022).

Of course, some will argue that LGBTQ+ rights have come a long way and that we should all just be grateful and stop rocking the boat. Marriage equality, anti-discrimination laws—what more do we want? (Answer: basic human dignity, thank you very much.) There’s also the persistent pearl-clutching about LGBTQ+ policies ‘going too far’—as though ensuring that trans people can exist safely in society is some kind of radical demand (Lewis, 2023). The truth is, legal protections do not automatically equal social acceptance, and there’s a vast chasm between ‘allowed to exist’ and ‘actually thriving’. Try telling a queer teenager in a rural conservative town that ‘everything’s fine now’ while they’re being bullied for simply existing (O’Connell, 2022).

And here’s where we need a serious reality check—every single LGBTQ+ person needs to take an active role in defending their rights. We cannot afford to sit back, sip our oat milk lattes, and assume someone else will do the heavy lifting. This is precisely how rights erode—first, it’s the quiet closure of small LGBTQ+ bookshops and pubs under the guise of ‘gentrification.’ Then, it’s the loss of our safe spaces—clubs, community centres, and vital outreach programmes. Before we know it, ambassador roles in the police and other public services disappear, leaving our access to safety and representation dangling by a thread. And if we let it go unwatched, what next? We don’t have the luxury of being passive spectators to our own history. As Gandhi once said, ‘You must be the change you wish to see in the world’ (and yes, I checked—he really did say that). So, it’s time to get off the sidelines and into the fight.

So, what do we do? We double down. Community support has always been the backbone of LGBTQ+ resilience, and now more than ever, we need to show up for each other. Local LGBTQ+ organisations, charities, and mutual aid networks are essential lifelines, especially for those who find themselves isolated or struggling (Stonewall, 2023). Political engagement is also key—because while it’s tempting to throw your hands up and declare that all politicians are useless, voting for those who actually give a damn can make a difference (Amnesty International, 2023). And let’s not underestimate the power of controlling the narrative. If the media wants to push the idea that we’re all radical leftist agitators, let’s at least make sure we’re writing the best, wittiest comebacks to their nonsense (Attitude Magazine, 2023).

Crucially, we must also prioritise mental health. The weight of constant attacks on our existence can be exhausting, and we need to take care of ourselves. Therapy, peer support groups, and self-care aren’t luxuries; they’re necessities in the fight for survival (Mind UK, 2023). Because the stronger we are as individuals, the stronger we are as a community.

As the UK experiences political and social upheaval, LGBTQ+ individuals must remain steadfast in their identity and advocacy. We’ve survived worse, and we will survive this. But survival isn’t enough—we deserve to thrive. The best way to combat the forces trying to push us back into the shadows is to live as loudly, boldly, and joyfully as possible. And to anyone who still thinks we’re the problem? We’ll just keep proving them wrong—one fabulous, defiant, and unshakable step at a time.

References

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Date: Monday 20 Nov 2017 10:12 pm

‘I’m often asked on dating apps if I’m clean. I reply “yes I shower daily”’. 

Chris O’Hanlon can talk about his HIV status with good humour now – knowing that effective treatment means he can’t pass on the virus.  The main challenge he’s now facing is outdated attitudes from other people.

‘There is still so much stigma out there that needs confronting, especially in the gay community,’ he said.  I’ve been told to get lost and die when I’ve told people I am HIV positive, because they think I’m spreading HIV.  Some people also say they don’t date or sleep with people ‘like me’, to which my response is ‘that you know of’,’ the clinical hypnotherapist and personal trainer from Luton said.  The truth is they may have slept with people who have HIV and don’t know it or even guys who know their status but haven’t said for fear of rejection, because there are a lot of gay men who remain undiagnosed.  It’s common that you get blocked or people stop talking to you because you tell them you have HIV, Some of this is ignorance and fear.’